Libra (left) and Capricorn (right) Best Friends.
Cancer (left) and Pisces (right) Best Friends.
Aquarius (first/left) and Gemini (second/right) First Date.
I’m an Aquarius and I find it strange that all my best friends are signs I shouldn’t get along with and most of my chart is Aquarius so it kind of doesn’t make sense. But I can confirm that Scorpio’s and us do not get along-well at least I don’t get along with them. I made a Scorpio friend one time. She was constantly butting into my business, even though I’m a very private person. I want my life being my life. She kind of forced herself into every personal thing about my life. She forced me to tell secrets and if I didn’t she would try desperately to guilt trip me. She was extremely overbearing and just very controlling. She would even judge every little thing since I tend to be a troublemaker and she was a bit on the “goodie-two-shoes side” not saying that’s a bad thing but it got irritating when she kept scolding me-especially when she was and is younger than me. She was extremely self-righteous, controlling, overbearing and just so judgmental. She had her sweet moments but overall our friendship was a disaster. I’m kind of glad its over. Bottom line Scorpio and Aquarius do not get along-at least I don’t get along with Scorpios!
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Taurus female here.
7 years ago, I fell in love with a Scorpio male. My emotions would never stop growing, I grew desperate and had to get it out of my system. My love was unrequited. He avoided me for 6 months, then out of nowhere started writing awkwardly with me. I wasn’t really over him, but was happy he wanted to still be my friend.
Things got sexual. He had a girlfriend but was obsessing over sexing me up as much as I was. For three years we would hate, love and sext each other. When I said I’d meet him up to do it, he would back off. When he said to me to come over, I got too scared. 3 years of a neglected sexual contact I had longed for since long before. We both got more and more aggressive when we’d write with each other. When I’d attempt to shut him off, he would always find a way to contact me eventually. But I was able to keep away from him for a long while eventually.
Then, 1.5 years ago, he sent me a message on a forum I forgot we both were on. It basically said “where are my tits when I need them?! Haha, I miss someone as cool as you man!”
I sent probably the most hurtful, honest, offensive and awful message to him. In short, I told him to never contact me again.
I saw him in real life one last time, by pure damn accident, two months later. He was with his girlfriend. He got so scared he tried to hide by covering his eyes with his bangs, and turn his head the other way.
I walked away.
Am I still thinking of him? Yes, but I don’t want to. I know I will just get hurt. There is this version of him, a character if you will, that won’t leave my head. He appears in my dreams, either to rape me or tell me how much he misses me.
A few days ago, I saw him in another dream. This time, he was rather sad, but tried to hide it behind a smile like he would always do. He said, “I bet it’s annoying how much I appear in here, all I ever do here is hurt you. I’m sorry.”
It hurts. Still does. I avoid him in all ways possible because I know how much it hurts me to just see his face now, but the desire in me want to run to him and tell him how sorry I am for that message I sent to him. I said really hurtful things, and since I got to know him 7 years back, the last thing I’d ever wanted to do was to hurt him.
And I hurt him. Bad.
I am more ashamed of myself than I am proud. I actually cut him out of my life, but he will not go away in my mind.
I don’t know why I sent this here. I wish someone out there understood me in this. It’s like I think I don’t ‘deserve’ to love anyone because I know how bad it can end up.
However, this is my experience with my opposite, the Scorpio. For better or worse, he will always be on my mind, as I will be inside his.
Freud theorized, and many modern Psychologists agree, that people tend to end up with a life partner that’s similar to their opposite sex parent.
So a girl may end up with a man like her father, and a boy with a girl like his mother.
This is usually because they have a stronger bond with those parents.
However; this can be altered depending on which parent they have a stronger bond with. A boy strongly attached to his father may find himself with a partner (male or female) with similar traits, and vice versa.
Translating that to Astrology, I don’t think it’s quite as likely to be the same Sign, but I do think it’s quite likely to be with someone of the same Element.
However; it may not be the same sign/element, as much as the similar traits. Like, the romanticism of a Pisces parent may subconsciously lead you to end up with a Libra, because you enjoy that romantic nature.
I’ll use myself and my Husband as examples.
I absolutely adore my (Virgo) father. There are many reasons that I won’t get into, but many discussions with my (Capricorn) husband had lead us to discover that both my father and my Husband have many similar traits. This is a good example of a girl ending up with a partner of the same element as her father.
On the other hand, my husband’s mother was absent for most of his life. He has a very strong bond with his (Virgo) father. Discussions also lead us to discover that his Father and I (Aries) share many traits, specifically our playful/childish nature. This shows not only the connection to a parent of the same gender of them, but also choosing a partner not of similar element of Zodiac Sign, but similar traits nonetheless.
Sun: Everything - the Sun is usually the pure essence of your personality, and while other planets may affect your initial reaction/feelings, the Sun usually depicts how you actually behave.
Moon: Your feelings at heart. The stuff that’s happening under the surface, that people may not always see. It’s your knee-jerk reaction/thoughts.
Ascendant: How you first present yourself to people. This may not always be exactly accurate of who you are. It’s your “outer shell” and usually only comes into play when you’re first meeting someone.
Mercury: How you communicate/learn. Even if you feel one way, how you express it may be slightly different. You may feel like a water balloon of emotion, and express that in a very calm and logical manner.
Venus: What you enjoy in relationships, how you want to behave in them, what you find attractive in others, and what you use to attract other people. How you feel about making love.
Mars:How you handle our anger, what makes you angry. How you view challenges, and approach things that you want. What you find physically attractive in people. How you feel about sex.
When looking at different types of compatibility, we look at different parts of the natal chart. Of course, to be thorough, you should examine the entire natal chart, but here are the key planets for each relationship type:
Platonic: Sun, Moon, and Mercury. This is how we act, how we feel, and how we communicate. These matter for friendships, because they depict how we behave and how we act around and talk to our friends.
Familial: Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars. This is how we act, how we feel, how we communicate, and what makes us angry. These matter for our families, because they depict how we behave around the house, and what can set off arguments.
Romantic: Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars. This is how we act, how we feel, how we communicate, how we love, and what makes us angry. These matter for our relationships because they all describe the ways in which we treat our significant others, the way we want to be treated, and the things we want.
Classmates/Coworkers: Sun, Mercury, and Ascendant. This is how we act, how we communicate, and our outer shell. These matter for acquaintances because They’re all our out-ward behavior/communications that we present to people who we aren’t as close to.